People always ask why I am so positive, nice and trusting of people, even complete strangers. I am sure it has to do a lot with my upbringing and the person who I strive to be. Not to mention, I obtain satisfaction when I see that my actions make other people happy- it is a great feeling that, in turn, brings profound contentment to my life.
As of lately, I am trying to operate more in the present, which can be a truly daunting and difficult task. People, who know me, know that I truly am my worst critic. It is like my mind and I are two separate entities: mortal enemies, in fact. It really is a double edge sword because my mind drives me to achieve my goals, but at the same time it always yearns for more and I live in the pursuit of perpetual challenge, never stopping to celebrate victories or simply take a moment to look around and be at peace.
Part of being present is being totally aware and engaged in your current activity and surroundings. I like to pretend I am doing the activity for the very first time which heightens my conscious awareness. When I am operating in the present, I get an incredible power and an energy that I want to share. In sharing this with others, I transform into something larger than myself. A simple compliment, smile or encouraging someone to see their self-worth and true potential can create a ripple effect and true grounds for a transformation.
I see myself as a positive person, but there are times, such as the last few days, where I just don’t feel myself. We all have those days where you just feel blahh and go through the motions anxious to come home, retire to your bed and awake to a new beginning. Blame it in on insomnia, poor health, a tragedy or just a bad day. Even in these last few days (gloomy mood coupled with gloomy weather), I was able to witness something miraculous that validates the power of Karma.
I now believe that by inspiring others when you’re in your "highs" gives you a “money reserves” of karma that is returned when you enter your “lows”. Without me feeling sorry for myself by falling behind in work while simultaneously making my best effort to remain in the present this week, so many positive things came to fruition. I was able to secure 2 appointments with the IT Directors of two larger San Diego companies that I have been trying to make traction with for over six months, I found out that one of my dearest friends is not only coming to San Diego but has managed to get me tickets to the Chargers and Patriots game this Sunday (something I have been wanting to do for a very long time), and my loan officer just called saying I can refinance and save monthly money off my mortgage without paying upfront fees. All these things, while intrinsically satisfying, do not even come close to the personal fulfillment I received when I opened my email to 3 people not only thanking me for my encouragement and referrals, but explaining how my words and ideas lead them to action that yielded positive results both in their business lives.
So my food for thought for my first post/blog is to learn to live in the now, this in turn will give you the empowerment and energy to not only change your life but the attitude of the people around you. Take every opportunity you can to brighten the day of a friend, a teacher, a co-worker, or even a complete stranger. You never know what kind of day that person may be having and how your smile, words, or actions can completely transform their negative thought patterns into optimistic productivity. Exude this positive energy unto others, and do so as if you have nothing to personally gain. This will lead to a sense of purposeful fulfillment and will enhance your own self esteem. Karma has a way of returning this positive energy back to you when you least expect it, after all, the universe, like our government, has a system of checks and balances, make sure you can honestly say that you deserve to receive your check.
I see myself as a positive person, but there are times, such as the last few days, where I just don’t feel myself. We all have those days where you just feel blahh and go through the motions anxious to come home, retire to your bed and awake to a new beginning. Blame it in on insomnia, poor health, a tragedy or just a bad day. Even in these last few days (gloomy mood coupled with gloomy weather), I was able to witness something miraculous that validates the power of Karma.
I now believe that by inspiring others when you’re in your "highs" gives you a “money reserves” of karma that is returned when you enter your “lows”. Without me feeling sorry for myself by falling behind in work while simultaneously making my best effort to remain in the present this week, so many positive things came to fruition. I was able to secure 2 appointments with the IT Directors of two larger San Diego companies that I have been trying to make traction with for over six months, I found out that one of my dearest friends is not only coming to San Diego but has managed to get me tickets to the Chargers and Patriots game this Sunday (something I have been wanting to do for a very long time), and my loan officer just called saying I can refinance and save monthly money off my mortgage without paying upfront fees. All these things, while intrinsically satisfying, do not even come close to the personal fulfillment I received when I opened my email to 3 people not only thanking me for my encouragement and referrals, but explaining how my words and ideas lead them to action that yielded positive results both in their business lives.
So my food for thought for my first post/blog is to learn to live in the now, this in turn will give you the empowerment and energy to not only change your life but the attitude of the people around you. Take every opportunity you can to brighten the day of a friend, a teacher, a co-worker, or even a complete stranger. You never know what kind of day that person may be having and how your smile, words, or actions can completely transform their negative thought patterns into optimistic productivity. Exude this positive energy unto others, and do so as if you have nothing to personally gain. This will lead to a sense of purposeful fulfillment and will enhance your own self esteem. Karma has a way of returning this positive energy back to you when you least expect it, after all, the universe, like our government, has a system of checks and balances, make sure you can honestly say that you deserve to receive your check.
